21 April – 5 May: Friendship – the Way to Wholeness

On the INTRO PAGE of this Category you’ll find certain expressions explained

Let yourself be touched by the Yellowness of these flowers. Maybe you can almost hear the bees buzzing between them or feel the sweetness of that Yellow inside, reminding us of a sense of fulfilment, when just for a moment all our needs are met and we expand into a sense of merging into peaceful co-existing with all there is in nature and the world around us. Our deepest wish is a longing for wholeness.

This cycle offers us an access to wholeness. The door is in befriending the inner patterns, which prevent us from living in touch with the source and with room in our hearts to express love and care for one another.
Since for the longest time, perhaps life times, we couldn’t see ourselves; we got used to wanting to be seen by others, to have our belonging confirmed by the environment or the group of people we crave to belong to. We acquire strategies for getting something from the outside and begin to confuse what we want and what we really need in order to feel whole. That’s what it’s all about, feeling whole, nothing lacking, nothing wrong with you, no need to change. What a blessed state. We know it – and we seemingly keep losing it again and again. How come?

The longing to be whole makes us want nearness with our friends and loved ones. As near as possible in order to confirm the closeness, the shared roots at the source, the oneness. At the same time, we often despise too much of that kind of closeness and hurtle back into separate existence, which is equally painful as the overload of a nearness that is run by wanting something. What a dilemma. So, let’s look at what we’re asking from our friends and lovers: what we want from our friends is really the qualities of a Buddha: ‘please do not judge me, do not compare me and do not expect things of me, which I cannot give’. That’s how we want to be treated by our friends, by any one close: No judgement, no comparison, or expectation. The idea is great, these are the qualities of a Buddha-Friend, of someone who is simply relaxed and fulfilled in the now, exactly the way they are and who therefore has room inside to love and care for others.

The trick is that it needs to begin in ourselves. It needs you to grace yourself with these qualities and become a friend to who you are and how you are. That involves befriending what’s inside – all inclusive! There is actually nothing in this universe that isn’t also you! The shadows and the demons, the flaws and the numerous other bits you may not like. Try asking those parts what they really need?! Begin to be friendly and kind with yourself. It works wonders!
It will take you closer to the source of being and bring an ease into your life by making it possible to be yourself in the most direct and simple way. No efforts needed, no pretence. In that space we’re also able to distinguish between wanting and real needs. We make more intelligent choices in daily life.
Befriending your whole self from within makes you flower and shine and spread a fragrance around which is irresistible to others, like those sunflowers to the birds and bees

Let it all begin by becoming a friend to yourself. Deepening in that will attract friends towards you and bring you closer to the source of being, to truth and love.

WHAT TO WATCH IN THIS CYCLE
The specially enhanced energy days

24 April
Today we confront or maybe it confronts us, the urge to argue – no matter what. Just arguing for argument’s sake and in order to feel on top of others. We get a kick out of outsmarting others with arguments and in doing so, our energy keeps winding up for more. Nothing really factual or relevant, just an energy power game. It weaves an illusion of being in an emotionally safe place. It isn’t really a protection from anything, but it certainly is a way of shutting off from our heart.
When this kind of arguing is engaged with themes of friendship or relating it really turns off anyone within earshot, anyone who is still connected to feeling, from wanting to be close to you. We may be attached to this pattern for the energy blast it sets off in our brains, but it also wraps a suit of armour around the heart, too heavy to move with. Becoming ordinary is the key here. Take off your work clothes, especially the shoes, and go for a stroll in the grass. Imagine it’s never too late to become a friend. Starting with kindness to yourself will attract friends towards you. Friendship love touches before thinking.

30 April
It is a special constellation today in that two aspects are amplified, the energy which moves us and the energy which makes us feel in one piece and in place with ourself. A strong sense of obligation may challenge the experience of being in one piece, today. Maybe we’ve given a promise or we’re simply conditioned to believe in certain necessities, without freshly checking what is really needed. Getting too wound up in obligation leads to losing the alignment within that makes you feel in harmony with your natural being. When we are aligned within, it’s easy to live the flow that wants to happen. When we’re losing that alignment, we tend to become submissive to ideas called obligation. Check the difference between wanting and needing and also check what you truly want and need.

The other aspect that gets enhanced today may be real fun to enjoy. It’s all about romance. Candle light dinners with music and sweet whispers. Going around town, being seen with the greatest partner, feeling like celebrities while counting the smiles you get from others.
Go for it! Yet, keep alert! This is a role to play, a costume to wear on the stage of human experiencing; it isn’t serious or meaningful. It’s a dream, which may match someone else’s dream just enough to conjure up magical feelings of connection and synchronicity in shared sensual experience. It’s all working and real in its own way as long as it lasts, but it’s not meant to last forever or build a life upon. After taking off costume, try sharing silence together. Enjoy!

1 May (came before on 20 April in the former cycle)
Today the energy boosts around learning loving in the moment, with whoever we meet. Imagine that! Coming from heart breaking separations into celebration in love. Dismantling the rules and regulations on “which kind of love is for whom and how that should and shouldn’t express”. After the umpteenth heart break with close relationship, we may have tried open relationship or multi anarchy non commitment dating … and not found what we need, what fulfils us. In a way our strategies have limited love by staying in control. That keeps us separate. Love is a merciless teacher. It works only when we live the truth (in the moment). We cannot negotiate and dictate our terms. When it’s love that you’re after, you need to open to the flow and vulnerability in every moment of every day. There are no guarantees, there’s no “gone by date” printed on your lovers neck.
There are as many delightful surprise moments with strangers and friends, with family members and even with enemies when we stay open to the dance that happens as a live celebration of love. It flows, it colours and deepens our long term love relationships while not limiting them to anything. It’s fresh and unknowable every day.

5 May
A real shower of grace is possible today, blessing the aspect in us that is connected to our sense of objective truth. It upholds the laws of objective truth and can be strongly opinionated in opposition to certain particular things, in order to maintain a balance in life for oneself and others. In itself, it is a balanced force’ It is balanced between the feminine and masculine qualities of compassion and action. It has to do with thinking in terms of the heart and expressing the heart, while protecting the environment from any evil by not allowing ignorance. Those heartful qualities flower as long as we are fuelling them by being natural and ordinary. In becoming extraordinary, we will lose both the balance and the sense of objective truth. This then becomes distorted into an ignorance towards matters of the heart and necessary action in the environment.
(this frequency is a prelude from the next cycle and will repeat)

May we all celebrate in the BLESSING DAYS around 4-6 May being friends in truth, walking this path together. Thank you beloved Friend.

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The physical organ benefiting from transformation in this cycle: Stomach

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